There are many things in life ,definations of which elude me like anything.So I am gonna discuss all of them here…and would keep on updating it as i found some thing more inexplicable..atleast to me !
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Date-this is most intriguing to me.Do you define it as a meeting of two friends..or something more intimate?Is it just spending time with him or her?Is it having dinner or lunch together?A movie perhaps?Or all of them?But then..all of them can be done with the people of same sex as well…so why is the word ‘Date’ inherently related to the meeting of opposite sexes?And then ,whats a perfect date? Does dating someone implies that you are in love with that person..or for that matter like him or her too very much?Is it ethically right to , to so called ‘date’ more than one person at the same time ?I think that i dont have the answer to any of them..perhaps you people may help me with your view point and expert answers.
Flirt-This one is most intriguing to me. Someone has always been complaining that I am never flirtatious with him..whilst at the same time.. Some other person is complaining that I am too very flirtatious with him-and I am absolutely indifferent to both of them-I precisely talk in the same way with both of them, and yet …such a wide disparity! Now what am I supposed to do? Moreover..I can’t differentiate between flirt and romance ! The most what I can think is that their difference is almost analogous to the difference between sex (with mutual consent) and rape (forced sex..usually the victim being the hapless and helpless female) ..Now can anyone help me with that too?
P.S-This post is under constant upgradation..so do keep coming back to it.
as far as ethics are concerned….i think its immoral to date more than one person at the same time..but on the other hand life’s abt experimenting n discovering so its only if u go arnd with more ppl u actually find the “perfect one”..
ps- just a vain attempt to b diplomatic
@silversurfer
so wat wd u prefer ? 😉
and btw..do we know each other by any chance ?